Marriage

May 16, 2008

Riding the Waves of the Retreats

Words can't describe how much I enjoyed being a part of our dual marriage retreats last week! It was so inspirational to rub shoulders with so many people and to see the great things that God is doing in their lives and marriages.

We had one retreat called the "Creative Marriage Retreat" for pastors and their spouses. I went into the retreat not knowing what to expect. But I've got to say that it was one of the most powerful times we've had with pastors...just to sit down and talk so openly about the joys and challenges of marriage and ministry.

I want to thank, once again, Craig and Amy Groeschel, Dr. Jonathan Cude (who I highly recommend as a Christian counselor), and Dr. Randy Perkins, who works so closely with so many in the ministry. And lastly, to my wife, Lisa...you did an amazing job at the retreat!

While this retreat was going on, we also had another one for our people at Fellowship Church called the "Wholly Holy Marriage Retreat". We would talk for an hour in one session and then walk across the hotel to teach for another hour to another group entirely. What an amazing time for growth!

And the response was so overwhelmingly great during this time that people are already asking about the next one. So we're working on that right now.

On the heels of those retreats, I would love to hear from some of you pastors. Maybe share one or two of the greatest things you find in ministry and marriage. And also some of the greatest challenges you face. Let me hear from you!

Again, I'm still riding the waves of excitement, and I'm looking forward to doing this all again...

May 10, 2008

Craig Groeschel On A 'Hole 'Nutha Level

It was awesome to have Craig and Amy Groeschel at our Marriage Retreat the past few days.

And I can't wait to see all that happens as a result of this summer's One Prayer series. Check back here for more details!

March 12, 2008

Marriage is hard...amen?!

Marriage is HARD! Always putting someone else's needs ahead of my own. Always having to consider someone else's feelings. Always putting my stuff on the backburner. Sometimes I think "I could be fishing somewhere in south Florida if I didn't have to focus on my marriage!" And it's right then when I realize...

Marriage isn't the easiest thing; it's the hardest thing. But when we do it God's way, it can definitely be the greatest thing.

Lisa and I have been married for 25 years. That's more than half my life. And for 18 of those years, we've led Fellowship Church. That's a whole lot of thinking of other people ahead of ourselves. The realities of ministry and marriage are tough. And I know that anyone who is in the same shoes is screaming, "AMEN!"

But there's no doubt, the journey has been well worth the effort. And as I get ready for this new series on marriage, I thank God that he's led the way. Because without him, there's no way we'd be able to make it!

If you are in any kind of leadership in the church, you know how tough it can be. That's why Lisa and I invite you to check out our Creative Marriage Retreat coming up May 8-9 at the Gaylord Texan Resort in Grapevine, Texas.

Lisa and I will be there. And we'll have some phenomenal guest speakers with us, including the founding pastor of LifeChurch Craig Groeschel and his wife Amy (check out Craig's blog at http://swerve.lifechurch.tv/).

Don't miss this perfect opportunity to reignite the passion in your marriage and relax for a weekend at one of Texas's premier resorts! For details, just check out our site at http://www.creativepastors.com/.

We look forward to seeing you there!